I used to be a terrible meditator. I would’ve gladly eaten boiled brussels sprouts rather than sit quietly with my thoughts for twenty minutes. It was a problem, because I really wanted to grow my psychic abilities.
I watched fellow students who did meditate zoom ahead with their psychic accuracy, but there was always too much to do and too little time to do it in. I thought meditation was hard.
I’d think of last years’ taxes that still need doing, or how full the gutters are with leaves. Any horrible job suddenly became important right then.
There was always something else to do with that time, rather than claiming it for inner nourishment. Even three years later, the gutters are spotless, taxes are up to date and the dog smells like a rose because I still procrastinate! It got easier when I realised these things no one ever tells you about meditation:
1. There’s no wrong way to meditate.
Seriously, you can’t mess it up. If you’re sitting with an upright spine and breathing, half the job is done. Part of the reason we are on a spiritual paths to be aware – to wake up; to feel so present we can observe the magic all around us.
Breathing helps with that. It gives us a focus. Of course the mind will wander, that’s OK. By gently shepherding it back to the breathing we allow ourselves to fail, try again and fail.
Someone once compared meditation to a toddler learning to walk. They don’t give up after the first topple. They pick up and try again. This is how we can treat ourselves, with love, like a baby exploring the wonder of her world.
2. The first few minutes are the hardest!!
It takes a while to arrive. Our bodies might be sitting, but the mind may be running all over the place. That’s why the first few minutes are the hardest – we’re still arriving. The yoga studio I go to is mindful of that process.
We allow ourselves to arrive with gentle poses and sitting before heaving up into the first creaky down dog of the day. In most meditations, the beginning focuses on the breath. It helps to bring the mind into the present and centre on the body again. Breathing switches on our inner GPS. Focusing on the breath allows us to arrive gently and begin, and it’s perfect for busy minds.
The meditations I use are specifically for connecting to the higher self, and guides. It’s a simple process to expand awareness and energy outward and upward. There’s no magic carpet ride or meeting wise old men to chat. It’s not a guided adventure, but a journey to meet the self – possible the most magical ride there is.
3. No one gave us the handbook.
Even Buddhist monks can’t still their minds every time, that’s why they call it a practice. By seeing it as a practice, the pressure lifts and we can forgive ourselves. If you’re a perfectionist like me, you could worry about doing it right, and whether this or that meditation s the “right” one.
What a relief to know that there’s no way we can mess this up, that once the first few minutes are done it’s easier, and there really are no rules.
The meditation police won’t give you a ticket. Thoughts are hard to stop, the brain isn’t wired to do that, but by focussing on the breath or expanding the energy body, like I do in my meditations, the mind has a job, and it loves that. You can’t shut the mind up, but it can have something to do.
Three years later, I’ve moved from thinking meditation is like eating boiled brussels sprouts. Right now the sun is streaming into my reading room and I can’t wait to sit. It will feel like a nap on a warm day.
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Want to use the same meditations I do?
I created three for budding intuitives keen to use their superpowers to help their lives. If you are a sensitive, soaking up everything or finding it hard to stay connected to your own GPS, I recommend Restore and Recharge. Perfect for the world weary psychics after a tough day.
Want to go straight to the deeper connection? My Shiny Light is the secret sauce to a better link to your guides and spirit. Best thing is both meditations are only ten minutes long and have binaural beats embedded inside for fast track happy place.
The truth is meditation is easy. There will be good days not so good days when we sit, and that’s why it’s called a practice. The main thing is the sacred space set aside for just you and your soul. And if you’re goal is to work with your intuitive skills to increase the connection to your guides and helpers, then meditation is a must. It’s how we check our messages. Think of it like hitting the reset button on the computer.
Now we’ve myth busted three things about meditation, it might feel less of a chore, and your psychic ability will get a boost, as well as a refreshing pause for the day. If you’d like to check out the meditations I created specially for psychics, here’s the link. There’s also a great value added bundle to access all three.