I was doing a practice mediumship reading and it felt more like I was tuning into my own loved ones in spirit rather than those of the person I was reading for. But here’s the weird thing: My person understood everything I said. Is it possible I tuned into both my own loved ones in Spirit and hers as a way to help me understand how they passed and how they felt? So confusing!
Here’s what happened:
To understand whats going on, let’s take a look behind the scenes from the viewpoint of the Spirit person. They are working hard to get their message across, using all the skills they have.
Imagine not being able to actually speak, but having to transmit an idea across to someone. That’s quite a job!
Mediumship is like a game of charades, using all the memories stored with your own loved ones to spark the messages they want to convey. A spirit person will send feelings of love and pictures of happy times. They often transmit a feeling of their relationship too, in order to ‘prove’ it’s them.
Stop a moment and recall the feeling of your own mother. Feel that closeness and sense of comfort and love. This is a feeling of ‘mother’ that’s quite distinct.
Now imagine that’s the same feeling a mother in Spirit wants to convey to you as the medium, to get her daugher (your client) to recognise her. She will be so excited to connect with her daughter here on Earth, that she will transmit those feelings through you. And to be a good medium, we must learn to be that ‘phone line” between the worlds.
Being a phone line between the worlds
The Spirit world is so smart – they knew you had memories of your own Mum with her neat towels and used that as a piece of information to help your reading. These are spiritual reference points and will hugely help your mediumship sitting.
Knowing this is how the Spirit People work, it’s a wonderful tool that will lead to more evidence about them and make a mediumship reading even more powerful.
If you are a medium who wants more support with this style, there’s a course coming up to help. Mediumship made easy is a two part live skill based course designed to give mediums the tools they need to get better spirit contacts and feel confident bringing those loved ones through.
Here’s the link: https://deniselitchfield.com/easy/