Be BFFs with your guides

by | Oct 10, 2018 | Spirit Guides | 5 comments

When everyone else seems to have a great spirit guide relationship and you can’t help feeling like you’ve been left out of the party, it isn’t true.

Even though they SEEM  to have all the psychic mojo with their spirit guides whispering little messages in their ears,  that may not be the case. If it makes you compare your inside experience with someone else’s social media update, chances are you might be better off as you are. It might make you want to work harder on your gifts or think you need to do another course on “how to talk to your spirit guides” but there’s an easier way.


Don’t bust a chakra

Working harder is actually not the answer. So, before you go out there and bust a chakra trying to connect to your spirit guide, just stop. The harder you try to reach out with your mind, the further away you will drift from creating a meaningful connection with your guides.



Think of your guides just like your BFFs in the physical world

When you hang out with your best pals, it’s not a massive effort, it just happens and you enjoy each other’s company. The vibe is good and you are relaxed. That kind of relationship doesn’t just develop overnight. It’s something that is built over time. You have to work on it regularly, not  just when you want something.



Check in with your guides regularly

Setting  aside time to connect and build your spirit guide relationship doesn’t have to be laborious. Use odd down times like waiting for the bus, cooking dinner, or when your mind normally  drifts off to other stuff. Most importantly, don’t compare yourself to others.

The truth is the psychic swag you think others have, may not be as amazing as they’d like you to believe.

Instead, nurture your own relationship with your guides. If you’d like a little helping hand with that, you can download The Ultimate Guide to Spirit Guides. It will set you on the right path.




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  1. Sally

    Hello sparkly one
    I have talked to ‘myself’ my entire life, which can be detrimental lol, but I still do it. Anyway I have recently noticed something that happens to me whenever I hear or read or sense something that is right or true or positive in some way.
    I get a tingling feeling course through my body, almost like a mild electrical current that doesn’t hurt, in fact sometimes it almost tickles.
    Could this be my inner self telling me what I should do or believe?

    • Denise Litchfield

      Yes it certainly is! Some people call them “truthbumps”, and it’s the energy field telling you you’re on the right track – well done!

      • Margaret Nutley

        I get those as well! I feel it as an intense tingle all down one side and I learned early on that when I get those I am right! It’s lovely to know someone else gets them as well! ❤️

  2. Dorothy Badge

    i getthis feeling whn someoneis about to pass away i get goose bumps all over me , i knw it’s thier time and but don’t knw whn tht time does arrive , is tht the spirit telling me it’s goingto be soon . I do have some psyhic ability buti try to get some validation on it to see if i’m on the right track here .

  3. Helen Stone

    I get a bad feeling in my butt and gut telling me someone in a bad way

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