Make it stop

by | Nov 1, 2023 | Psychic Tips | 0 comments

When spiritual growth happens too fast and it feels overwhelming and you just need it to slow down a little bit. You know, like you want it, you’re on the spiritual path, you want to grow your psychic skills, your mediumship skills, you want to have all now, now, now, right? Like I did when I was learning, and sometimes you get really impatient, and then suddenly something happens, and You’re able to feel something different, you can feel the presence of the spirit world, you’re able to tune in really well and it can be just oh sometimes it can be a little overwhelming yeah.

Well this happened to somebody recently that reached out to me and asked me and she said look, look I know I don’t need to protect myself you know, I know I don’t need like the sage and the crystals and all that hullabaloo but is there a way I can just stop it for a little minute? And if I do stop it, will I be able to start it again?

And I love this question because the answer is yes, yes, and yes. You can stop it and it will come back. And certainly that happened to me years ago when I was… incredibly keen and frustrated and I was burning the rubber trying to get somewhere and I was pushing my own soul growth really really fast and hard because I I had this idea that you know there was a destination and guess what there never is and I got it and stuff opened up for me and I was seeing colored lights I felt like I was on an acid trip and it was really overwhelming and I asked my spirit team to take it away Not that I know who my spirit team are, by the way.

I said, oh, too much, too much. And they did take it away. And do you know what? I spent the next five years wanting it back again. So, sometimes we ask for it to go away and it’s like, oh no, I really wanted that. But here’s the thing to know. You can slow it down. If it does feel like it’s, whoa, a little bit intense, you can just send out this message in your mind, from your soul, and go, look, can you just dial it down a little bit?

And it will. Because your spiritual growth, your psychic growth, your mediumistic growth, your ability to connect to the unseen world, will only go as fast as your own soul, as your own inner work. Because it’s the inner work that helps the outer work happen. And when you realize that, you’ll kind of dig deep on the personal growth.

And you’ll welcome those really hard Things that happen, the things that bog you down for months, the changes in relationship, the changes to job, all those things that happen on our outside world that tell us that our inside world is growing and changing. So we can celebrate it. So, if your personal growth feels like it’s a little out of control and it’s happening too fast, too intense, yes, you’re in control.

You can ask for that little dial to be turned down again and then as your soul kind of catches up again and you get a little bit of breathing space, it will all fall into place beautifully. Because that’s the intelligence of the spirit world. They’re in charge of our growth. We think we are. And we think, oh yeah, that course I want to do, or that teacher I want to work with, yeah.

But you know, sometimes I do believe it’s our higher self, it’s the spirit world, it’s the unseen magic that gets us to where we want to go. So, sages and all that stuff, or the crystals. They’re pretty, but they don’t really do much. You just got your soul and that comes naturally so aren’t we lucky. 

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