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Mediums can’t choose who comes in a reading

Sometimes a new medium suddenly feels like they’re connected to their own loved one, instead of the client’s. It can feel quite odd, but there’s a reason, as my student Julie discovered:

I was doing a practice mediumship reading and it felt more like I was tuning into my own loved ones in spirit rather than those of the person I was reading for. But here’s the weird thing:
My person understood everything I said. Is it possible I tuned into both my own loved ones in Spirit and hers as a way to help me understand how they passed and how they felt? So confusing!

Here’s what happened:

Even though mediums can’t choose who comes in a reading, they do their best to get to the one you want. But let’s look behind the scenes from the viewpoint of the Spirit person. They are working hard to get their message across, using all the skills they have.

Imagine not being able to speak, but having to transmit an idea across to someone. That’s quite a job!

Mediumship is like a game of charades, using all the memories stored with your own loved ones to spark the messages they want to convey. A spirit person will send feelings of love and pictures of happy times. They often transmit a feeling of their relationship too, to ‘prove’ it’s them.

Stop a moment and recall the feeling of your own mother. Feel that closeness and sense of comfort and love. This is a feeling of ‘mother’ that’s quite distinct.

Now imagine that’s the same feeling a mother in Spirit wants to convey to you as the medium, to get her daughter (your client) to recognise her. She will be so excited to connect with her daughter here on Earth, that she will transmit those feelings through you. And to be a good medium, we must learn to be that ‘phone line” between the worlds.

Being a phone line between the worlds

If a medium isn’t used to this kind of telepathy, it’s easy to be confused and think it’s their mother.

With the example of mother, suddenly you find yourself thinking of your mother and how she folded her sheets and towels with such precision. Guess what? That’s exactly what this Spirit mother did too.

The Spirit world is so smart – they knew you had memories of your own Mum with her neat towels and used that as a piece of information to help your reading. These are spiritual reference points and will hugely help your mediumship.

Mediums can’t choose who comes in a reading

But they do their best to get to the one you want.

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Semi fictional story about me

In 1994, I had a midlife crisis, got a boob job and moved to Byron Bay.

Quickly realized there was nothing there but more boob jobs and white furniture, so I escaped faux-spiritual beach culture, went to Peru, and experimented with DMT.

While in Peru, fell in love with a Shaman who was really a plumber from Padstow, but stayed because of attachment issues.

After following a puma from the jungle, I holed up in a Scandi-style Air B’n’B and finally got enlightened.

Parts of this story are true.

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