There was a lady in the Psychic Playground Facebook group who felt inferior because she was a wine drinking carnivore and her judgy friends said she wasn’t spiritual enough. When that exact comment was aimed at me over a year ago, I know how painful it can be. I wanted to jump through the screen and give her a big hug. That kind of spiritual judgement is not even spiritual.

As a wine drinking clairvoyant secretly eating pepperoni pizza when my vegan partner isn’t looking, I uphold the rights of anyone to nourish themselves any way that tickles their fancy, but it got me thinking. This lovely lady was made to feel less than, unvalued, and questioning her membership to the Spiritual People’s club. And that’s awful. No one likes to feel spiritually judged. Especially about wine.

She felt awful, left out and judged.

The Dalai Lama was once asked what someone can do to be more spiritual. While the expected answer might have been long hours of crosslegged meditation, mantras and deprivation, the Dalai Lama simply said: Be kind.

Being kind may be the simplest thing, but is often overlooked in favour of more exotic displays of spirituality. Spiritual people are inclusive and friendly, and may or may not eat kale. Anything that has you comparing your insides to someone else’s outsides is never going to make you feel happy. It’s not even being kind to yourself.

It’s like when you jump on the bathroom scales and say to yourself, if only I could lose five kilos then I’d be, happy, successful, accepted, whatever it is.

You are enough

You’re always fine and you’re always enough. It’s easy to listen to other people’s ideas and judgments but at the end of the day you’re the only one that can judge, and if you’re like me you do the self-judging just fine!

Let’s ditch the spiritual judgment in favour of being kind. Want to get even more spiritual? Get even kinder.

Smile at the neighbours.
Make eye contact in the street.
Give spare change to homeless people
Offer your seat to those in need.

Your spiritual path is unique and divine

Don’t let others dictate the way your spiritual path unfolds because it’s yours, and it’s divine, and it’s’ going perfectly. Everone’s gifts arrive at their own pace, like a delicate cocktail of the beautiful soul ability you came with and the snoozing potential yet to be awakened.

That’s why some people seem to pop out of nowhere and we wonder where they came from. Chances are they’ve worked really hard in the background and the napping potential inside them woke up.

Your potential can too.

You have a great balance of natural psychic gifts readily available and a sack of snoozing potential waiting to be uncovered. If you’re ready to work, I’d love to help you zoom ahead on your own spiritual path and be filled with confidence.  Hit the comments below and share the psychic goal you have and we can book a digital latte and cake session to chat about it.