What’s with the spiritual judgement?

by | Jul 18, 2019 | Pizza for the soul | 3 comments

There was a lady in the Psychic AF Facebook group who felt inferior because she was a wine drinking carnivore and her friends gave her a lot of spiritual judgment over it.

When that exact comment was aimed at me over a year ago, it hurts. I wanted to jump through the screen and give her a big hug. That kind of spiritual judgement is not on.

As a wine drinking clairvoyant secretly eating milk chocolate when my vegan partner isn’t looking, I uphold the rights of anyone to nourish themselves any way that tickles their fancy, but it got me thinking.

This lovely lady was made to feel less than, unvalued, and questioning her membership to the Spiritual People’s club. And that’s awful. No one likes to feel spiritually judged. Especially about food choice.


What the Dalai Lama says

The Dalai Lama was once asked what someone can do to be more spiritual. While the expected answer might have been hours of meditation and mantras the Dalai Lama simply said: Be kind.

Sometimes the simplest thing can be the hardest.
Having the empathy bandwidth to consider what life might be like for others is a skill. Massive empathy bandwidth is also the bedrock of all psychic and mediumship work.

You are enough

You’re always fine and you’re always enough. It’s easy to listen to other people’s ideas but at the end of the day you’re the only one that can judge, and if you’re like me you do the self-judging just fine!

Let’s ditch the spiritual judgment in favour of being kind. Want to get even more spiritual? Get even kinder.

SUCCULENT ICON MAUVE b9b1c1 blogSmile at neighbours.
SUCCULENT ICON MAUVE b9b1c1 blogMake eye contact in the street.
SUCCULENT ICON MAUVE b9b1c1 blogGive spare change to homeless people
SUCCULENT ICON MAUVE b9b1c1 blogOffer your seat to those in need.


Your spiritual path is unique and divine

Don’t let others dictate the way your spiritual path unfolds because it’s yours, it’s divine, and it’s’ going perfectly. Everyone’s ability arrives at their own pace, like a delicate cocktail of the beautiful soul ability you came with and the snoozing potential yet to be awakened.

That’s why some people seem to pop out of nowhere and we wonder where they came from. Chances are they’ve worked really hard in the background and the napping potential inside them woke up.


Your potential can too.

You have a great balance of natural psychic gifts readily available and a sack of snoozing potential waiting to be uncovered. If you’re ready to work, I’d love to help you zoom ahead on your own spiritual path and be filled with confidence.

Hit the comments below and share the psychic goal you have and we can book a digital latte and cake session to chat about it.



  1. Susan F Turner

    I am a healer, animal communicator and I feel a channel. My goal is to really own it and bring it out and fully embody it as I am shy about it.

    • Denise Litchfield

      That’s awesome! I”m working with a VIP psychic client now who is an animal communicator – shes’ doing fabulous work and it’s so needed. I wish you well on your journey to be own it more.

  2. Allie

    I know I have psychic abilities, sometimes they’re quite strong, sometimes not. I’m an over thinker and just need to get out of my own head to progress further I think.

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