Be the boss of your psychic gifts
One thing’s for sure: You are the boss of your psychic gifts. No one’s in charge but you.
You choose where it goes, who to give it to, who to retrieve it from. I love reminding beginning psychic students – they are in control and they decide how their energy is spent.
It’s quite a trick to keep your power when everyone around is losing theirs. Learning how to contain your energy is one of the first skills in psychic development, and I teach it often and early. We want to be effective and balanced so we can get the best insights for ourselves and others.
Only sometimes you don’t feel like the boss
Especially for the big feelers, empaths or Sensors. If they haven’t learned how to contain their energy, they can sometimes soak up everyone else’s and feel everyone’s feels. Not to mention the confusion and overwhelm that goes with foreign feels that don’t even belong to you.
The more you work your own energy, the easier it is to define what belongs and what doesn’t. A strong sense of self is the backbone of all psychic work and keeps us from losing it in this big energy soup of a world.
Your energy is your responsibility. Running about soaking up everybody else’s? That’s just plain exhausting, and a not a very boss place be.
How to be the boss of your psychic gifts
Being boss comes with a decision: To be in charge and to reclaim sovereignty of your energy. That means your aura, what goes in and what comes out. It might mean filtering what goes into your Facebook feed, or the types of shows on Netflix. It could even be saying farewell to downer friends or upgrading your diet.
You are in charge of your gifts. You have an energy field that can expand and contract at will. You decide what comes in and what stays out.
Being responsible for your energy means no one controls it or makes you feel anything anymore. That’s saying someone else is in charge of your feelings and that’s just not true. Besides, giving your power away sucks!
You are a beautiful soul with beautiful energy and the only one who decides what to feel is YOU!
The second part is discovering what’s your energy and what isn’t.
You’ll be feeling all the feels and unable to separate them, because everything FEELS like you. Time to shrink that energy field back into a workable size. Time to re-ground and reclaim. If you need a hand with that, let me know. I’d love to help you reclaim your power and use it the way it’s intended.
Deep, powerful feels, vivid dreams and extrasensory experiences do not make you a victim. You are not a victim of your psychic abilities. It’s time to claim the power of who you truly are and define your energy field, your way. What will you keep? What will you toss? When you claim the title of powerful feeler/seer/knower, you’re halfway there.
Claim the title of psychic, medium or healer – and reclaim yourself.
What do you claim? What parts of your energy field will you upgrade? If you’re ready to be the boss of your psychic gifts, it might be time to work privately with me, or check out the on demand mini courses in the Psychic Classroom.
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Semi fictional story about me
In 1994, I had a midlife crisis, got a boob job and moved to Byron Bay.
Quickly realized there was nothing there but more boob jobs and white furniture, so I escaped faux-spiritual beach culture, went to Peru, and experimented with DMT.
While in Peru, fell in love with a Shaman who was really a plumber from Padstow, but stayed because of attachment issues.
After following a puma from the jungle, I holed up in a Scandi-style Air B’n’B and finally got enlightened.
Parts of this story are true.
