Can control freaks be psychic too?

by | Sep 27, 2020 | Psychic Tips | 0 comments

Something a new psychic student does is search for answers, flipping card after card till it’s an awful jumble.
 
In a reading, the new psychic busts a chakra trying to “get” something, when all it needs is to be still, open and alert.
 
But we aren’t trained to be still open and alert in this world of micro edits, email dings and Facebook notifications.
 
This is why many shy away from the inner work of the psychic, which is becoming open, relaxed and attuned.
 
Being open, relaxed and alert takes inner work, which cant be done in a weekend workshop, and it won’t look pretty on Instagram.
 
 

Our head wants to run things

And that’s not where the best and finest results come from when it comes to psychic information. The clue’s in the title: psychic has its meaning from the Greek word for ‘soul’.
 
So we know the real evidence and truth in a reading comes from the opening of one soul to another. The mind takes a back seat.
 
 

For control freaks, this is a challenge

 
I worked with a lovely private student who had the same issue. She freely admitted she was a control freak too, and we high fived on Zoom over that.
 
We explored what bringing more openness to her psychic work felt like, and how open she felt in her regular life. because what we do there crosses over on to our psychic and medium work.
 
There were tears on her face.
 
She opened.
She was brave.
 
And the change in the quality of the psychic information was moving and powerful with the truth bumps of heartfelt info.
 
If us control freaks can learn to shut the mind up enough to get decent psychic info, so can you.
 
Today I came across this quote that sums it up well: Not searching, opening. It’s the real truth to this work – being brave enough to open fully.
 
Love to hear if you also have a strong mind that loves to interrupt the psychic process.
 
 

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