How to get a spirit message

It’s normal to want a message from spirit if there’s someone there we miss who has passed. We want confirmation they’re still there, part of our lives, and still connected to us. We just want reassurance, and there’s nothing more frustrating than being in a public mediumship event and not getting a message from our special spirit person.

Even though I give messages from spirit as a medium, I don’t have many of my own loved ones in the Spirit world. In fact, there are only four I miss with all my heart and three of them are dogs.

Once I was desperate for a message from spirit.

I went to a public demonstration in hope. Like many mediums, she asked, “Is there someone you really, really want to hear from?” In my mind, I screamed for my grandmother: “Oma, Oma, Oma”  to no avail. Someone else got the message.

I burst into tears

In my mind, I said,  “Oma why won’t you come through. All I ever want is to hear from you. You’re the only one apart from my dog. I just want you to come through. Just show me that you’re here. Just give me a sign.”

I got angry, telling off the Spirit world saying, “All right maybe she’s not strong enough to come through by herself, well then come on all my other dead relatives make the way, pave the way, come in first, open the door for her, help her to come through”,

It’s not up to us who comes.

I imagine a trendy nightclub. The nightclub is the spirit world and there’s a long line of people waiting to get in.  The stylish door girl decides who gets in.

She might say, “Okay, you’re next, your relative really misses you…… you had your turn last year……. you’re next. Oh, and you down there? You’ve got a big need, come to the front of the line.”

The stylish girl at the desk with slicked hair and a microphone headset is the spirit guide keeping things organised.

I imagined my grandmother is at the back of the line. She just can’t make it to the front. All the other spirit people want to get in ahead of her. That was the thought I consoled myself with.

Eventually, I dried my tears and continued on with the day.  All through the day in the back of my mind was a song. Do you ever get songs that just play in your mind over and over and over again?

Not like the radio pop songs that stick in your ear – this was an old song I hadn’t thought of for years. I wasn’t paying any attention to it. I was busy doing my day, and it took a while because even though I’m psychic, I can be a little slow on the uptake sometimes!

Suddenly the words made sense

Noticing the words of the old Sinatra song, I got the message: “I know I’ll stand in line to have an evening with you.” He and Nancy Sinatra sing about waiting to get through to make a connection because they love you so much. That they’d been trying an trying and the person doesn’t notice them. The final line is: “Then I go and spoil it all by saying something stupid like I love you.”

That’s when I knew Oma had sent me the message. She’d been trying to get through and waiting and waiting but never quite making it. She sent me that song, to roll about in my head till I finally noticed that she’d been there all the time. I also knew spirit helped her get through and that was the message that I needed.

How to get a spirit message

If there’s someone you’d love to hear from and it’s been hard to get a Spirit message, take hope. They will be trying. It’s not that they don’t want to, or they don’t love you. They might need a hand. Here are three things you can do to help the energy along.

1. Book a mediumship session, and bring a photo of them.

2. Talk to them in your mind as if they are right there.

3. Be open to the many ways a message from Spirit can come.

Ready to connect?

Are you ready to connect to someone you’re close to in the Spirit World? You’ll always feel them around and get the signs they are still in your world, and sometimes you’ll want the kind of extended info that a trained medium can provide. Mediumship readings are 30 mins and can be booked anytime.

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Semi fictional story about me

In 1994, I had a midlife crisis, got a boob job and moved to Byron Bay.

Quickly realized there was nothing there but more boob jobs and white furniture, so I escaped faux-spiritual beach culture, went to Peru, and experimented with DMT.

While in Peru, fell in love with a Shaman who was really a plumber from Padstow, but stayed because of attachment issues.

After following a puma from the jungle, I holed up in a Scandi-style Air B’n’B and finally got enlightened.

Parts of this story are true.

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